5 Reasons Girls Want To Have Sex (NOT WHAT YOU THINK)

What’s going on Tripp Kramer here from Tripp 
Advice.com. On today’s video, as you’ve seen,   We’re gonna go into the 5 reasons why women will 
want to make the decision to have sex with you.   And if you’ve noticed or learned anything so far 
on my channel, you should know that women are not   Viewing attraction and the way that they sleep 
with a guy the same way that a guy’s viewing   It. When it comes to wanting to or desiring 
to sleep with a woman, there’s a few things   That are just a little bit different, and we’re 
gonna go over those right now. The first one,   Which I don’t normally put these in order of 
importance, this is a pretty important one,   The one that’s going to make her really want to 
sleep with you. And that is investment of time.   A woman is going to need more time, generally 
speaking, to sleep with a guy, or make the   Decision to sleep with a guy versus a guy. A guy 
can literally look at a girl and make the decision   In that split second, whether or not he wants 
to sleep with her. A woman is going to need more   Time. Now, in those crazy circumstances, sure, it 
could be 10 minutes. Still, that’s 50x faster than   A guy. But that’s the exception. Most women are 
going to need even more time than that – sometimes   A few hours, sometimes several hours to several 
days. When I mean time, I don’t mean the time that   Passes per se, I mean the time collectively 
that she’s spending with you. For example,   If you guys meet out at a bar, and you guys 
are talking for one hour, that’s one hour. If   You’re on a date with her, and it goes from 7 
to 12, that’s 5 hours, that’s 5 hours of time,   Plus maybe that other hour of time that you guys 
first met. All those collective hours add up. She   Needs more time and the reason why is explained 
in some of the other things I’ll be talking   About here today. But in summary, the reason why 
she needs more time is because it takes a woman   More time to sess out and see if you are the guy 
who has the attractive behavior that she can be   Attracted to. For a woman, while looks are very 
much important, it’s still going to be majority   Behavior based. If anything to simplify it more, 
it’s all important. It’s not just one or the   Other. I know plenty of guys, friends, clients of 
the Tripp Advice coaching program, who are rich,   Who are super good looking, and they still can’t 
get laid. Why is that? It’s because they don’t   Have the attractive behavior. And again, back to 
this first reason here, it comes back to time.   She needs to have some of that time to become 
invested. Part of that time investment brings   Me to reason #2 safety. She has to feel safe with 
you on a physical level and an emotional level.   She doesn’t want to feel slut shamed. She doesn’t 
want to feel like she is slutty in any sense. She   Doesn’t want society judging her for sleeping with 
a guy too quick. So she’s going to take a little   Bit more time than usual. And then of course, the 
other safety part is she can get pregnant. Women   Are generally going to be more pickier than men, 
because she has more of a heavier consequence than   A man does. A man can sleep with as many women 
as he wants, he doesn’t have to… he won’t get   Pregnant. She has a chance of doing that, even 
though there’s birth control and condoms and all  

Those things, still biologically wired inside of 
her that she can get pregnant therefore needs to   Feel safe, and therefore is going to be a little 
bit pickier and therefore needs to spend a little   Bit more time figuring out which guy she wants 
to be with. Another reason why a woman will want   To have sex with you is due to the fact that she 
feels comfortable around you and more so that she   Feels that you’re comfortable around her. Women 
are going to be very attracted to your confidence   And confidence comes out in comfortability. 
What does that mean? That means that when she   Sees that you’re comfortable, cool, calm, and 
collected around her, not nervous, not too shy,   That’s going to make her more attracted to you. 
She’s going to want to sleep with a guy who’s calm   And cool around her because when he’s comfortable 
and confident that means that she has this sort   Of protection. Again, this is also biologically 
wired. She wants to be around a guy who’s not   Going to be nervous or crazy or emotional or too 
angry or go over the edge. When he is more stoic,   This is a guy that she wants to be with. Another 
thing that’s going to make a woman want to sleep   With you is when she knows that you won’t 
sleep with just any girl. She wants to know   That you’re picky. She wants to know that she can 
be disqualified at anytime. She wants to know that   There’s some sort of challenge there. Basically, 
in a sense, it’s like this hard to get. If you’re   Too easy to get you’re going to be just like every 
other guy, and she’s not attracted or wants to   Sleep with a guy who’s desperate for sex. Women 
don’t like to admit this, but they would actually   Rather be with a man who’s been with more women. 
There’s this thing called social proof. If you   Are a guy who has been with more women, then 
that means that they’ve done all the work to   Tell her that there’s something attractive about 
this guy. Again, a lot of this comes back to time   And time investment. If you’re not with her on 
a date, and you’re not qualifying her, if you’re   Not asking her questions that challenge if this 
is someone that you actually want to be with,   Well then there’s a chance that she’s going to be 
turned off, because again you’re showing her that   You’ll just be with anybody. She doesn’t want to 
see that desperation. And number five, the one   That the internet loves to rant about, and it is 
true I have to admit, that you need to look your   Best, you need to have your grooming in order. 
And generally speaking, to kind of sum this last   Point up, you just can’t be a loser. You can’t 
be someone who’s sitting in your basement, doing   Nothing, neck bearding, just completely on your 
computer all day completely unsocialized. You look   Like crap, you act like crap – that is not someone 
obviously she’s going to want to sleep with. There   Is some sort of level where you’re going to have 
to have your life together, you’re going to have   To be making some sort of income. Of course, those 
things aren’t necessarily if you want to just hook   Up with a girl fast. But generally speaking, you 
have to portray a guy who is somewhat successful,   Somewhat has his life together, well groomed, 
smells good, looks good, obvious things that   Shouldn’t have to be said. But as you know, those 
things absolutely help. A lot of guys have trouble  

With this. They need hand holding through the 
process to get to the point where they are a   Guy that women want to sleep with. We work with 
you one on one to get you to be a guy who has a   High sexual market value, and someone who can 
be attractive to women where they do want to   Sleep with them. In fact, we do it every single 
week – we turn guys who never thought that they   Could ever be with a woman that they really wanted 
into guys who are dating multiple women per week   That they are just crazy excited about. If you 
want to get those results too and be that guy,   Check out www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com. There, 
you can fill out a little form and we give you   A free dating assessment. We get on the phone with 
you, we chat with you, we talk to you, and we help   You. Hope this helps today. Subscribe if you’re 
new here, and I’ll see you on the next video.